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Thinking today of everyone who travelled from far and wide to attend Tom’s funeral, one year ago today. We, his family ,would like to thank everyone again for being there. We find it comforting to know how well our beautiful son was thought of. Carol and Dave.
I often come back to this site hoping to find something I haven’t seen or didn’t know about Tom. I wanted to add another post myself but find it harder to put into words now – except in thinking of you all. He is everywhere and nowhere, in all our joys and sorrows [...]
Walking next to him in the rain him taller talking about work, where we were going next and stopping to buy Regals at the newsagents in SohoFalling out for a couple of years when we were 20 over something I can’t really remember and that we never talked about after.Meeting him drunk outside the Odeon [...]
Tom had recently completed his PhD, and I was either very close to finishing mine or about an hour from a nervous breakdown, depending on how you looked at it. We were discussing the merits of the whole endeavour and the enormous amount of time spent on it. I suggested that perhaps medicine would have [...]
It has taken me a long time to write on this site, mostly because I don’t know how to put Tom, and what I’m feeling, into words. But also because I can’t help thinking that Tom would have laughed lightly at the necessary superficiality of what we write here and also perhaps been a bit [...]